A dildo is a sex toy that is intended to give a woman a sense of penetration, as opposed to a vibrator that is generally used for external clitoral stimulation. There is a wide variety of dildos available, which makes choosing one difficult for beginners.
There are a number of factors to consider when buying your
first dildo.
- Size. Do you want a dildo that will give you the feeling of being filled up or one that will hit a certain spot that gives you pleasure? Experts recommend that beginners buy a dildo that has a smaller girth and gradually move up to a bigger size.
- Material. Dildos are made from a variety of materials, including rubber, jelly, latex, and glass. However, the most recommended material is silicone, which can last a lifetime with proper care and is more hygienic.
- Shape. Do you want a dildo that realistically looks like a penis or one that is more fanciful-looking? Also, make sure to choose a dildo that has a slight curvature since the shape provides deeper penetration and stimulation of the g-spot.
- Features. Among the features available with dildos include suction cups that allow you to stick it to any flat surface, textured shafts that massage you while penetrating you, rabbit ears that also stimulate the clitoris, and g-spot knobs that stimulate your g-spot. There are also two-headed dildos that are extra-long and which you can use with a partner, or for penetrating yourself anally and vaginally simultaneously. In addition, there are strap-on dildos that come with harnesses so you can strap them to your body and use them in sex play with your partner.
You should get a tube of lube for your dildo, particularly
if you are planning to use it for anal penetration. And for safety and hygiene
purposes, if you use it with a partner, make sure you place a condom over the
dildo.
Here are some of the ways you can get a dildo.
Buy from a sex shop. If there is one in your neighborhood
or nearby, this is the easiest way to get a dildo. You can get an opportunity
to look at the different dildos that are available so you can find one that you
feel comfortable with. In addition, you may be able to get advice on the best dildo to buy from the staff.
Buy online. There are a number of specialized sites from which
you can buy dildos, which also offer buyer’s guides that provide advice as to
which particular model to get based on your needs. But these days, even sites
like Amazon offer dildos as part of their product inventory so you have a
variety of choices as to where to buy your dildo on the Internet.
Make your own dildo. There is a wide variety of kits that
you can buy to make dildos at home. However, you will need to have a male
partner whose penis will serve as the model for the dildo.
